Have you ever heard the phrase "you are who you surround yourself with"? If this is true, then surround yourself with those who positively influence your life. If those around you are pessimistic, self-centered, and stressed out... this could rub off on you. During the school year, I have many heart-to-heart talks with my kids that only THEY decide their own attitude. Only they decide if someone's words will affect them or not. Only they decide if they will work hard that d